Monthly Archives: May 2012

Sweet Land Of Liberty


My country, ’tis of thee
sweet land of liberty, of thee I sing;
land where my fathers died,
land of the pilgrim’s pride,
from every mountainside, let freedom ring

My native country, thee,
land of the noble free, thy name I love;
I love thy rocks and rills,
thy woods and templed hills;
my heart with rapture thrills, like that above

Two generations taking photos of the third generation. 🙂

Let music swell the breeze
and ring from all the trees sweet freedom’s song;
let mortal tongues awake;
let all that breathe partake;
let rocks their silence break, the sound prolong

Our fathers’ God to thee,
author of liberty, to thee we sing;
long may our land be bright
with freedom’s holy light;
protect us by thy might, great God, our King

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Slowing Time


“Why does time go by so fast? And how can we slow it down?”

My  sixteen year old son Josh asked me this question at 6:15 this morning.

At 6 a.m. we had left the house to walk into town. The weatherman had promised a scorcher today so we wanted to have an early start on our workout. The sun was just beginning to burn through the early morning fog and all was quiet, except for the cheerful chirping of the birds.

I took a moment to look up at him as we walked; remembering a time not too long ago when I had to look down to see his sweet little face. Those days are long gone, as he now hovers around six feet tall.

He has always had an introspective side. He can be very silly and fun, but his thoughts run deep.

I sighed and told him I knew how he felt. Lately, I have been acutely aware of how fast time is flying and my accompanying sense of helplessness, like trying to grasp the wind.

Then I quoted a few lines from One Thousand Gifts that really spoke to me so I memorized it as a reminder:

“Time is a relentless river. It rages on, a respecter of no one. And this is the only way to slow time…when I fully enter into the current moment with the weight of all my attention…I only live the full life when I live fully in the moment.”

He was silent, thinking.

“Look around, Josh,” I said quietly. “Be all here.”

So, we drank everything in, together.

The soft morning light. The still surface of the lake, reflecting the sky above like a mirror. A lone kayaker out in the distance. A bird lighting onto the branch of a tree. An orange cat sitting as still as a stone among the high grass, her gold eyes following us as we walked past.

Josh, the only cat lover in a family of dog lovers, laughed with delight. “She’s a ginger like me!” he said.

“This is being all here, ” I told him. “Pay attention. Notice the details. Search for beauty. It’s always there.”

He loves high school and I encouraged him to truly treasure this time because before he knows it, he will have graduated and the kids will all scatter.

“Now is the only time that you all will be together in one place. So enjoy it and live the life out of everyday you are there.”

What a beautiful thing…to spend this time with my son on a Saturday morning. To know that we enjoy each other’s company and that he is willing to share what is going on in his life with me.

We are very much alike, he and I. That sure made for some fireworks when he was little. He is every bit the strong personality that I am and we had quite a few battles of the will. My mom spent many hours encouraging me to stand strong and be consistent, to do  the hard work of shaping his little soul.

With the Lord’s help, my husband and I did just that. And oh how sweet the fruit from that season is now.

I so enjoy his company. We laugh…a lot. We challenge each other. We encourage each other. We argue from time to time. As he makes his faith his own, I answer many questions. He loves to tease me, particularly as  I get older and more forgetful. And I love the fact that he is not embarrassed to still give me a hug in public. 🙂

He is a writer like me and it was on this walk this morning that he  told me he is going to start his own blog.

He has a lot to say to the world and I can’t wait to begin reading.

We finished our four mile walk and soon we were back on the road. This time, I was taking him to meet his girlfriend and her parents. They were going to spend the day in Maine. As soon as he spotted their vehicle, he took off in a light jog and greeted them enthusiastically. A day of fun in the sun awaited him. Before disappearing into the van, he raised his arm and gave me a big grin.

“See you later, Mom!”

And with a flurry of waves all around, they turned the corner and drove out of my sight.

This was good. This was right. This is how it should be. From the moment our children learn to walk, they begin to walk away from us. His world is getting bigger.

Yet I still had tears in my eyes as I walked back to my car alone.

I have two more years with him until he goes away to college. I know the time will fly.

Until then, I will treasure the moments like I shared with him this morning, when I taught him how to be completely present to the glorious now.

I will fully enter into the minutes as they pass…so that when the relentless river of time sweeps the coming days away, I will have a heart full of beautiful memories that will soften the inevitable sting of his empty room.

“I am a hunter of beauty and I move slow and I keep the eyes wide.” —Ann Voskamp

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Sell The Story


Last night was the spring concert at the high school. Our son Josh plays the oboe and the saxophone and our daughter Julia plays the flute.

The kids all did a fantastic job and everyone enjoyed a wonderful night of music.

Afterward, Doug, Julia, her friend Diana, and me struck up a conversation with the father of one of my friends who is well into his eighth decade. In fact, he and his lovely bride have been married for 64 years.

He began to share his love of music with us, including the fact that he still performs shows at nursing homes…”for the old people,” you see. 🙂

I motioned to Diana and told him that she plans to be a Broadway star one day.

His eyes lit up and he said, “Do I have a piece of advice for you!’ He paused for a moment then said, “Every song tells a story. You have to believe  the story with every fiber of your being. Then you look people in the eye and you sell that story! They’ll never forget you!” 

I thought about his advice long after we went home that night. Specifically, how it relates to the greatest story ever told…the Gospel of Jesus.

As Christians, we possess the most incredible, surpassing, breathtaking, beautiful story that this world will ever hear. And we have been given the privilege of sharing that story with those who cross our paths…some for a lifetime, some for a moment.

Do we believe it with every fiber of our being?

Are we courageous enough to look people in the eye and boldly but gently tell them about the unfathomable love of such an extraordinary Savior?

No, we do not “sell” the story with slick words or fancy techniques.

Rather, we share out of the overflow of a heart that is forever grateful for so great a salvation.

We share out of a heart eternally in love with the One who was willing to die rather than live without us.

We share out of love for those who are still living in darkness and desperately need the Light.

We share from wounded hearts that have been made whole by the Healer.

We do not need to be brilliant theologians. We just need to tell our stories about how we came to know Jesus and the difference He has made in our lives, both for time and for eternity.

Then we pray that they will never forget the words of life that we have shared.

Who will you tell your story to today?

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Life Means So Much


My cell phone rang just as the Moms In Touch prayer meeting was ending.

When I saw my husband’s name, I was surprised since he was supposed to be at work.

“I hit a deer,” he told me.

It felt like ice water was suddenly running through my veins. Relief flooded my heart when he told me that although the car had been damaged and the deer was dead, he was okay. His next step was to contact the insurance company and obtain a rental car.

When we disconnected, I left the meeting and headed for the high school track where I had intended to walk. The entire time I drove, I was praising and thanking God that Doug was okay.

It was a fresh reminder how life can change in an instant. 

We can never take it for granted.

I turned on my iPod as I started to walk and Chris Rice’s song “Life Means So Much” began to play. So appropriate.

“Teach us to count the days
Teach us to make the days count
Lead us in better ways
That somehow our souls forgot
Life means so much…

Every day is a gift you’ve been given
Make the most of the time every minute you’re living

Life means so much…

I looked all around me with new, appreciative eyes. Elementary school kids were running around the track, bursting with energy and excitement. High school kids played flag football on the field. An English class was taking advantage of the glorious spring day by discussing their assigned book on the bleachers instead of inside the four walls of the classroom. An elderly man was also making his way around the track talking quite loudly on an enormous cell phone. A dear friend and I texted back and forth.

On a sun-drenched spring day in New Hampshire, we had all been given the privilege and the gift of being alive.

And it was beautiful.

Cherish today.

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Dancing In The Rain


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Since my blog is called “The Power Of A Moment” I am always on the lookout for moments that reach out and grab me by the heart and don’t let go.

Between that and counting my 1000 gifts, it makes life a wonderful adventure and fills me with joy.

I witnessed one such moment last week. I pulled up to the high school entrance to wait for my son to finish jazz band practice. At that very moment, the sky opened up and the rain began to fall.

Seeing movement from the corner of my eye, I glanced down at the football field to see about 20 teenagers. The rain had clearly interrupted whatever they had been doing. However, rather than running for cover from the raindrops they…danced.

Every single one of them.

Their arms were open wide, faces upturned to catch the raindrops. They twirled with joyful abandon.  They locked arms and skipped round and round. They ran the length of the football field and made it look as effortless as if they were being carried by the wind. I slightly lowered my window and could hear the sound of their laughter wafting up the hill to fill my car.

I was transfixed and wished I had my camera with me to capture the moment. (I really need to just take it with me everywhere I go at this point!).

It was a moment of such joy, such freedom, such playfulness that it made my heart sing.

Why do we lose that? When do we begin to look at the rain that falls literally and figuratively in our lives and always run for cover rather than fully embracing the moment and allowing our spirits to soar?

No, life is not always fun and storms do come. Yet in the midst, if we look hard enough…there is joy to be found. Just a sliver of light to pierce the darkness. Gratitude for even the smallest grace.

“Whenever thanks is possible, joy is possible.”—Ann Voskamp

The next time it rains, I will remember that scene on the football field. And I just may leave my umbrella at home. 🙂

dance in the rain

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Perspective


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If you do nothing else today, please take the time to read this article and watch the short video at the end.

http://www.desiringgod.org/blog/posts/why-we-got-married

I don’t think I have ever seen anything so heartbreakingly beautiful in my entire life. I sit here with tears streaming down my face, absolutely amazed that I have just seen the unconditional love and power of Jesus Christ on display in a way I have never seen it before.

I have been painfully humbled by my shortsightedness, by my sometimes petty concerns, by my frequent lack of an eternal perspective when I allow the tyranny of the urgent to eclipse what really matters.

On a day when the subject of marriage is in the national news, this is a shining and glorious example of the exquisite beauty of a Christ-centered marriage.

“When God stands as a witness to the covenant promises of a marriage it becomes more than a merely human agreement. God is not a passive bystander at a wedding ceremony. In effect, He says, ‘I have seen this, I confirm it, and I record it in Heaven. And I bestow upon this covenant by My Presence and My purpose the dignity of being an image of of My own covenant with My Wife, the church.’ ” —John Piper

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Lessons From Buddy


We are the proud owners of a Bichon Frise named Buddy.

We adore him. He is not “the sharpest knife in the drawer” as my cousin Elaine likes to say, but he is the sweetest dog we have ever had.

This past Sunday morning, Doug happened to notice that there were four enormous ticks embedded in Buddy’s snout. Horrified, he spent a couple of hours trying to remove them  but was only able to uproot two.

He gave Buddy a much needed break after that exertion and when it was time to try again, I moved toward Buddy to bring him to Doug…but he was not having it. He ran away from me as fast as he could.

He didn’t realize that I was trying to help him. All he knew is that he didn’t want to experience such discomfort and pain again.

Finally, we decided to take him to the emergency vet in town. The technicians were able to successfully remove the rest of the ticks and Buddy was as good as new.

However, things were about to change for  Buddy in ways he would not realize. When we took him on walks, we could no longer allow him to sniff and explore the higher grass since that is where the ticks thrive and latch on to him.

The problem is that Buddy  loved doing that. He buried his snout with abandon into the green grass and seemed to deeply inhale all the wonderful scents residing there.

The first time I tugged on his leash to prevent him from going into the forbidden area, he was not pleased. He dug in and pulled back, leaning determinedly back toward the grass. So began a tug of war. Buddy is surprisingly strong for only being 22 pounds.

Finally, he surrendered to the fact that he was not able to go where he wanted to and he stopped fighting me.

However, he was not a happy camper. He was mad at me for the rest of the afternoon. He sulked. He sighed. He refused to sit next to me.

I could not help thinking about the fact that I have often acted exactly like Buddy when God said no to something I wanted.

How often I have pushed and pulled, sulked and steamed.

Why can’t I have what I want? I would ask petulantly.

In my mind, it seemed perfectly fine and good….just like Buddy thought he should be able to explore the high grass and couldn’t understand why I was being so “mean.”

I was trying to save him from danger but he didn’t know that. My knowledge is so much greater than his. It was my love for  him that was the motivation for not giving him what he wanted.

But Buddy didn’t see my love…all he saw was the no.

Don’t we do that with our Heavenly Father? Focus on the no…and refuse to see all the times when He has said YES?

When we don’t understand a closed door,  we would do well to remember the wonderful promise of Psalm 84:11: “No good thing does He withhold from those who walk uprightly.”

If He is withholding something, it isn’t ultimately good for us. Even if we—in our very limited wisdom— think it is.

That is when we reach a fork in the road.

We either surrender to the infinite wisdom of our good and gracious Heavenly Father, resting in the fact that our finite minds simply cannot comprehend His infinite one.  Or we run from Him, just like Buddy ran from me when I was trying to carry him to help. The ticks on his snout must have been painful but he was willing to live with that pain rather than run in the direction of healing.

This life is too short to cling to bitterness about closed doors.  Will you continue to dig in and insist on your own way?

A much better plan is to release the pain, your expectations, your hurt feelings to your God.  He loves you. He only gives what is best. Stop fighting Him. Adjust your pace to His. Let Him lead. He sees the big picture and He knows exactly where He is going.  

Yes, coming to Him for healing can sometimes hurt but ultimately it will set you free. 

That freedom is worth whatever you have to do to obtain it.

He is the Rock and His ways are perfect  and all His ways are just. A faithful God who does no wrong; upright and just is He. —Deuteronomy 32:4

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An Afternoon With The Greatest Generation


My son plays in a band called New Horizons. It is an international organization that was established for the purpose of giving adults who have always dreamed of playing an instrument an opportunity to do just that.

At 16, Josh is the youngest member of the band but he loves it. He enjoys the people and it gives him another venue to play his beloved oboe.

This past Saturday was their first concert of the year and it took place at the local Veteran’s Home.

The band arrived an hour before the show to practice. Some of the residents came early so they could listen in, including one man who seemed particularly excited to be there. He asked the aide to wheel him right up front and his face was wreathed in smiles.

However, it soon became apparent that he didn’t understand that the band was only practicing. As soon as they would begin to play, he moved  his arms enthusiastically, as if he were conducting. But when the band would stop in order to go onto the next piece of music, he would drop his hands back into his lap and plead loudly, “Continue! Make melodies!”

When this happened a couple of times, an aide walked over to him and explained that the band was just practicing and the concert would begin soon enough. He waited patiently from that point until the concert began. Once it did, he continued to “conduct” with abandon and joy. The look of sheer happiness on his face was wonderful to see.

I was particularly intrigued when these two women were wheeled into the room…

What beautiful faces of two brave women who chose to step up and serve our magnificent country during WWII.

In a room full of mostly men, their lights shone brightly.

I so wanted to hear their stories but uncharacteristic shyness kept me in my seat. Instead, I asked one of the aides where the women had served. I was told that some were nurses, some served in the Women’s Auxiliary Air Force, and one of the women was actually a gunner on a battleship!

Amazing.

The room was full by the time the concert started.

When the band played the service anthems for each branch of the military, the veterans were asked to raise their hands when the song representing their branch was played. Hands shot up proudly all over the room.

As the first strains of “National Emblem” filled the air some felt the need to stand (most with great difficulty) and salute the flag at the front of the room.

Tears filled my eyes as I watched these great American warriors proudly salute. I felt so honored to be in the same room with these incredible men and women. My father served in the Korean war and both of my uncles saw combat in World War II. They are my heroes.

Will America ever see such a spectacular generation again?

I wanted to personally thank and shake every single veteran’s hand once the show ended.

Someone I was thrilled to meet was the “conductor.” His name is Robert and he served with the Navy. I was able to shake his hand and thank him for his service.

He was very intent to meet the band’s conductor, Mary.

He thanked her over and over again for coming to the home.

I am continually amazed at the power of music to unite people, to soothe, to bring joy, to cause one to go back and relive times that now exist only in the memory.

It was a wonderful way to spend a few hours on a Saturday afternoon. I am so grateful for the band members for giving of their time and talent to bring such joy to these men and women who have given so much.

“Freedom isn’t free.” —Anonymous

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