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Milton Takes Manhattan


Milton has been to the Big Apple and lived to tell the tale.

Like any good vacationer, Milton began the trip with some shopping at Stamford Town Center in Connecticut. A moose has got to look good, you know.

So many choices.

In the end, Milton decided to travel light. After all, it’s hard to improve on his snazzy blue ascot.

Finally, the big moment arrived and Milton found himself in Grand Central Station:

Milton felt right at home with the hustle and bustle all around him. He was just another world traveler with places to go and people to see.

His first order of business was to hail a taxi, which was easy to do.

The next few minutes were among the scariest Milton had ever endured. His entire life passed before his eyes as the taxi driver careened through the busy streets of Manhattan.

Milton wanted to ask where this man had learned to drive. The Autobahn? It must be so. He was driving 120 mph and inventing his own lanes!

However, all was forgotten when he set foot outside that blasted taxi and took in the sight of the Rockefeller Christmas tree, which is 74 feet tall this year.

Milton spotted this statue across the street:

He  felt a strong kinship.

Times Square was like nothing Milton had ever seen…

His new life’s goal is to figure out a way to get on a billboard there. Imagine Milton magnified on a 300 ft. tall billboard for all to see! He has several ideas that he is ready to pitch to any advertising execs out there: men’s cologne? rugged outdoor wear? Calvin Klein underwear? The possibilities are endless, really.

That evening, Milton was utterly captivated by the talent of the Radio City Rockettes.

However, he did think that the show could use a little moose. Why not him? He can kick up his heels with the best of them!

All this excitement made for one tired Milton. And this was only his first day in the city! He was thankful to sink into the 1500 thread count sheets of the Waldorf. Nothing but the best!

The rest of his trip passed by in a blur…

He experienced a little culture at the New York Philharmonic at Lincoln Center…

He took a fancy carriage ride through Central Park…

…indulged his sweet tooth at Dylan’s Candy Bar…

(Can you spot him atop this mountain of candy?)

…rode the subway…

…consumed copious amounts of coffee…

…enjoyed stunning views of the city…

…and thoroughly enjoyed living in the lap of luxury…

All too soon, the magic ended and it was time to board the train and leave…

 So long, Big Apple! You haven’t seen the last of Milton!

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Christmas Vacation: Days 4 and 5


We have spent the past two days exploring various parts of the city.  Josh and Julia wanted to see as much as they possibly could during our visit.

On Wednesday, we began our day in Little Italy, in search of the perfect pizza.

Near the top of nearly every list is a place called Lombardi’s.

It was delicious. My husband wanted to go back there for every single meal until we left the city.

My friend Ida Mae had told me that we had to visit a bakery in Little Italy called Ferrara’s.

Oh my word, it was scrumptious! Worth every single calorie! See for yourself!

Just as Doug will be thinking about the pizza at Lombardi’s, I will be fondly remembering this gelato. It was perfection.

Our next stop was Chinatown.

Any ideas what in the world these are?

We sat for awhile at Washington Square. It is a fabulous place for people-watching.

As we took a taxi back to the hotel after dinner that night, we were debating about extending our stay by another day.

There are TVs in taxi’s now and an ad came on for Mary Poppins on Broadway. The kids said they would love to see that show. It was one of their favorite movies when they were little. Josh loved it so much that he began to affect a British accent at the age of three.

‘Allo, Mummy,” was the way he would greet me in the morning. He also took to calling Doug “Guv’ner.”

To this day, he loves to do accents and it all started with Mary Poppins.

Since it is less than two weeks before Christmas, we didn’t know if we could get another room in the hotel, so Doug inquired. We were told that we would have to vacate the room we were currently in but there was another room available and we were assured that we would find it “quite satisfactory.”

So, this morning, we checked out, left our bags with the hotel, and planned to check back in later in the day after more sightseeing.

The first person we saw was Mary Poppins herself!

Well, not really. At least, I don’t think so. But Julia was convinced that if Mary Poppins were real, this is what she would look like. 🙂

Our first stop of the morning was Grand Central Station to check out the Holiday Fair, where artisans from the world over display their handiwork. There was jewelry, clothing, ornaments, and artwork. Everything was so lovely.

A trip to Grand Central wouldn’t be complete without a trip to the Hot and Crusty Bakery.

When Doug worked in Manhattan, he would often pick up a loaf of their Challah bread and bring it home. It was so good that sometimes that would be all we would have for dinner. We were delighted to see that it was still in business and their Challah is as good as ever.

We bought a loaf and headed to the main concourse to have a bite and people watch. However, the waiting area that used to be there is now a full-fledged Apple Store!

On our way out, we strolled through the Grand Central Market:

Doug’s favorite building has always been the Chrysler Building so we went into the lobby to have a look.

You can barely tell that they are tourists! 🙂

The photo doesn’t do it justice but there is a beautiful mural painted onto the ceiling of the lobby:

We made a quick stop at the New York Public Library.

Julia was fascinated when Doug and I told her that back in the day when we were kids, there was something called a “card catalog” system. She could not imagine such a thing and hoped that this massive library would still have card catalogs. In this computer age, we were doubtful but we did find this…

Kids have it so much easier these days. (In addition to using the card catalog, I still remember having to type all my high school and college papers on a Selectric typewriter while using lots of White Out).

Bryant Park is right next door to the library.

This was an outdoor restaurant, complete with heating lamps. (Not that we needed it, as it was almost 60 degrees!)

We saw the Times Square ball on the way to Macy’s and the Empire State building…

Later that afternoon we headed back to the Waldorf to freshen up before attending “Mary Poppins” on Broadway. We checked back into the hotel and were given the keys to our new room.

Rather than go to the bank of elevators we had been using, we were instructed to go to another area of elevators labeled “The Waldorf  Towers.” The elevator would not even move until we inserted our key inside. When we got off the elevator this is what we saw:

Our room was at the end of the hall. Here is Julia, full of anticipation:

Well…let’s just say that the lady at the front desk was right. We did indeed find this suite of rooms (as opposed to our previous one room) “quite satisfactory.” Ahem.

The views were just spectacular!

We just could not get over it. We have never stayed in a place so lavish and grand.  This book on the built in bookshelf in one of the bedrooms said it all:

🙂

There was still yet another surprise in store for us when we left to attend the Broadway show.

Every other night we have left the hotel, the bellman hails us a cab. However, tonight, as soon as we emerged onto the sidewalk, we were asked if we would like to take a limo to our destination?

Yes, we certainly would!

We were led to a sleek black stretch limo and rode to Broadway in style:

I must say that “Mary Poppins” exceeded our expectations. It was brilliantly and exceptionally done and we loved every minute of it!

We walked back to the Waldorf marveling at what an incredible trip this has been…

We will head home tomorrow morning.

I am typing this sitting on a window seat enjoying the incredible view from our suite and listening to the sounds of the city below. I am also incredibly grateful for God’s wondrous goodness to us and the lovely surprises He arranged for us to have along the way.

Doug and I wanted to give the kids a vacation that they would remember for the rest of their days.

I think we have succeeded.

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Christmas Vacation: Day 3


Our third day in the city began early. The day dawned bright, clear and reasonably warm. We could not have asked for better weather for sightseeing!

Our first stop was Lincoln Center in the Upper West Side, as we had tickets to observe the New York Philharmonic rehearse Handel’s Messiah.

We chose to sit in the box seats where Josh had a good view of the principle oboist, Liang Wang.

Josh was in his element. He is passionate about playing the oboe and I loved watching him experience what it is like to be part of one of the best orchestras in the world.

Who knows? Maybe someday Doug and I will be in the audience watching Josh up on that stage. 🙂

The music was so thrilling,  beautiful, and enchanting . It was easy to forget that outside that elegant concert hall was a bustling, crowded city in the thick of rush hour. It was such a lovely way to begin our day.

As we left Lincoln Center, we heard and saw a lot of commotion. There were bright lights and cameras everywhere. Apparently, the cast of the daytime talk show “The Talk” had just finished filming and were being interviewed.

I raised my camera and just started snapping photos.

Here you can see actress Sara Gilbert (from the “Roseanne” show) and half of Sharon Osbourne’s face. 🙂

Suddenly, it seemed as if Sara spotted me…

Hi Sara! I’ve never seen The Talk but I used to watch you on Roseanne!

Is it just me or does she look slightly alarmed?

Moving on…

I’ve always heard that people are TV are prettier in person. (Why is that?). In any event, that was certainly true in this case.  Sharon Osbourne has the most gorgeous skin. Both ladies are quite lovely (and extremely tiny!).

After our brush with stardom, we decided to take a carriage ride around Central Park.

Since we were near Central Park, we had to stop in at the Plaza…

Then we saw this in a store window nearby:

These are wedding gowns. Can you imagine?!

The dresses were so ugly that I didn’t even notice the fact that there were birds on the heads of the mannequins.

Wow…we’re not in New Hampshire anymore.

One of my kids’ very favorite places was  a candy store called Dylan’s Candy Bar, which was founded by Ralph Lauren’s daughter Dylan…

This sign says it all. This is Josh and Julia’s idea of heaven on earth:

Mosaic of Dylan Lauren, owner

For the evening’s entertainment, we went to see “Sister Act” on Broadway.

Every time I see a Broadway show, I am absolutely blown away by the talent of these actors, singers, and dancers. Tonight was no different.

After the show, we went to Lindy’s for dinner.

(We really did feel like New Yorkers because we were eating dinner at 10:00 at night! 🙂 ).

What happened next still amazes me.

Josh ordered a breakfast item from the menu.

Our waiter shook his head and said, “No. You have to pick something else. That is too small for you. I will bring you the chocolate chip pancakes instead.”

That was it.

No discussion. No opportunity for protest.

He just turned on his heel and left our table to deliver our order.

Josh turned to me and said, “What just happened?”

I said, “Surely he is joking. He IS going to bring Josh what he ordered, isn’t he?”

The answer was no. He brought Josh the chocolate chip pancakes and told him he was going to like it.

As my grandmother would have said, “Well, I never!”

Live and learn, I guess!

Tomorrow we are headed to Greenwich Village and Chinatown.

I love New York!!!

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Christmas Vacation: Day 2


After spending the night in Connecticut, we arrived in New York City  at lunchtime on Monday.

There truly is no place like Manhattan: the energy, the pace, the endlessly fascinating people watching.

Our first stop was checking in at our hotel, the Waldorf Astoria. The lobby is beautiful.

Next was a visit to the Rockefeller Center Christmas tree…

On the way to Times Square, we stopped in at St. Patrick’s church. It was a strange mix of worshipers, tourists, and a heavy police presence, but it is absolutely beautiful.

I loved watching my kids’ reactions to Times Square. It is such a feast for the senses.

Minnie Mouse was our first (and so far only) celebrity sighting:

Julia had no trouble acclimating and was soon hailing taxis like a native…

It was soon time to head over to Radio City Music Hall to experience the Christmas Spectacular.

The show did not disappoint. It was amazing, fun, and very uplifting. No cameras were allowed inside the theater but I was able to take some photos of the lobby. It is delightfully garish.

After the show we walked to Del Frisco’s Steakhouse for dinner. There was a lot to see on the way…

Our dinner at Del Frisco’s was melt-in-your-mouth delicious. I had heard Neil Patrick Harris tell Kelly Ripa on “Live With Kelly” last week that he had recently enjoyed a meal there and it was the best steak he had ever had. I would have to agree.

We made a nighttime stop at Rockefeller Center before heading back to the hotel. The tree is even more stunning in person than it looks on TV…

You will probably notice that I have a lot of photos of Doug and Julia. I would like to have photos of my son but he has developed an acute case of camera shyness. I hope this phase passes quickly.

Several hours, a million calories, and about six taxi cab rides after leaving the hotel that afternoon we were ready to call it a night.

This may be the city that never sleeps but we need to.

Tomorrow, the New York Philharmonic and Broadway!

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Christmas Vacation: Day 1


Here we are: the Griswolds Browns getting ready to head to Vermont for the first leg of our Christmas vacation.

Notice that Buddy is attempting to remain unobtrusive, hoping to slip out the door with us.

Not a chance, Bud. We wouldn’t want to deprive Uncle Jeff of all that quality time with you.

Darkness fell as we drove the back roads of New Hampshire and Vermont. A full moon shone in the sky and every so often the silvery night would be punctuated by bright Christmas lights strung merrily along trees, porches, and windows. We listened to Christmas music as we drove and my heart overflowed with gratefulness and anticipation.

We awoke bright and early and headed out to breakfast. It was so early there was no one in the streets:

But the sun sure did look pretty rising over the Green Mountains:

As evidenced by this fountain in someone’s front yard, it was cold!

We headed to one of our favorite breakfast places:

And here is my family walking “up for breakfast”:

It’s a cute little place with delicious food and a small town feel…

After breakfast we headed for Connecticut.

On the drive there, the Brown family ended up behind the Brown bus:

We  decided to make a short stop  in Northhampton, Massachusetts. Back in 2007, we flew to New England from south Florida for our niece’s surprise wedding shower.

We had lived in Florida for nearly five years by that time and we were so homesick for New England. Right before we left, Doug had agreed to interview for a job in New Hampshire. The interview would take place a few weeks after we were in Massachusetts. We wanted it so badly. New England was home and while we experienced many blessings living in Florida, it never felt like home to us.

The cold winter weather was a shock to our systems but Josh and Julia have always loved winter and were desperately hoping for snow.

We checked into the Hotel Northhampton only to find that  we were given a smoking room. We immediately placed a call to the front desk and were told that the only room available was the bridal suite, which they would upgrade us to at no extra charge.

The room was gorgeous and spacious. The best part for the kids was the fact that the room came with a balcony that overlooked part of the town. That especially came in handy the next morning when we woke up to snow.

The kids were overjoyed and immediately went outside to play in it.

It was a gift from Heaven, an answer to their prayers. I remember watching them being so filled with happiness and praying fervently to God, telling Him how much we wanted to move back home. I was so afraid it wouldn’t happen and was scared to get my hopes up.

His still, small voice told me, “Trust My heart.”

I did…and He sent us back home later that year. I still praise Him for that every single day.

So, it was sweet to go back and see that place where we had so many fun memories and hopeful dreams…

Hotel Northhampton

Next stop was New Canaan, CT where Doug and I lived for two years when we were first married.

It’s a charming little town and we were looking forward to taking a trip down memory lane…

We visited the place we used to live…

We lived in this two bedroom apartment with our Border Collie Charlie…

Charlie and his favorite toy

Charlie was an absolutely amazing dog…crazy (in a good way), incredibly smart, tons of fun, and very protective. .

To be honest, we had no business having a Border Collie while living in an apartment, spacious though it was. Border Collies require a ton of exercise. Fortunately, our apartment was the right across the street from Mead Park…

Charlie and I spent hours here and he loved it. He could run, sniff, fetch sticks, and stealthily stalk squirrels.

I could still see him in my mind’s eye as we walked through that familiar park.

We still miss Charlie to this day.

Next up, we took the kids to a lovely place in town that the natives call “God’s Acre” because there are three churches on one acre of land.

One of the most magical experiences my family has had on Christmas Eve took place on God’s Acre back in 1993.

It was my first Christmas away from home and my parents and brother had come up to spend Christmas with us.

Every Christmas Eve, everyone in the the town is invited to God’s Acre to sing Christmas carols in front of the huge, brightly lit tree on the property.

That evening,  as we gathered with the townspeople, we were given a candle to hold as we sang the familiar carols.

Would you believe that just as we all started singing, it started to snow?!

It was magical, like being on a movie set.

After singing the last song, “Silent Night” we blew out our candles and walked back to our apartment while the snow fell all around us.

It is still one of our favorite memories.

On the way back to the car, Julia wanted to try to recreate the “Abbey Road”  album cover with her dad:

I don’t think she quite pulled it off. 🙂

Before we left town, we went to the largest park in New Canaan called Waveny Park. There are loads of hiking trails and picnic areas, including a lovely mansion that once belonged to a family but was given to the town back in 1969. It is now used for weddings and events.

It’s a beautiful place…

This reminded me of a Romeo and Juliet balcony

Julia and Doug

Our last stop for the day was Stamford, Connecticut. After checking into our hotel, we went to one of our favorite malls, Stamford Town Center, which has 9 stories…

These pictures were taken on the 9th floor…right before the security guard came up to us and told us that that floor was no longer open to the public.

Oops.

After doing some Christmas shopping and having dinner, we headed back to the hotel.

While waiting for the shuttle to come pick us up, Josh agreed to let me snap his photo wearing the new hat he purchased…

Is it just me or does he look like the main character in the “Despicable Me” movie?

Here he is looking much more like himself during dinner…

Earlier in the day when we were having lunch at a Chinese restaurant in New Canaan, we each opened our fortune cookies at the end of the meal. Mine read:

“There are many golden hours ahead for you.”

I don’t believe in that kind of stuff, but I must say, as we head into New York City tomorrow, I am looking forward to the golden hours ahead.

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Weekend Moment: Christmas Vacation


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When you read that title, did you automatically start singing the theme song from National Lampoon’s “Christmas Vacation?”

Because I totally did. And now it will be running through my head for approximately the next 568 hours.

In a little while, my family and I are heading to New York City for a week.

Our kids have always wanted to go there and there is no better time for a visit to NYC than at Christmastime.

We plan to see the Radio City Music Spectacular, a Broadway show, and the New York Philharmonic while leaving plenty of free time to explore and soak it all in.

In the past, I always had such unrealistic expectations of vacation.  I expected no less than the following:

*being well rested and having tons of energy

*constant smiles and good humor

*absolutely no fighting between my children

*no getting lost trying to find our destination

*one Hallmark moment after another

Totally realistic, right?

Needless to say, things never happened that way.

So this time, I decided to be much more practical.

This quote by Ann Voskamp will frame this particular vacation for me: “I want the moments enough to let go of the mirages.”

No more mirages.

I will let it be whatever it is.

I will meet and embrace the moments ahead with joy.

I will endeavor not to lose sight of the many blessings that we have.

I will thank my beautiful God for giving us this gift of time with my precious family.

I will make memories.

I will laugh off the non-essentials.

I will refuse to let go of my joy, no matter what happens.

By the way, my brother is staying here at the house with Buddy, our Bichon Frise.

Pray for him. 🙂

And by the way…the rumor is that Milton the Moose will soon be making a bloggy appearance,  as he is making the trip to NYC with us!

Happy holidays!

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Crowned With Dignity and Honor


I could feel my anger building as I listened to the beautiful teenage girl across the room during Bible study one night.

In a halting, quiet voice, she shared some things her boyfriend had recently said to her.

Slyly manipulative things.

Mean things, couched in  the seemingly benign sharing of information.

Things meant to make her feel slightly off balance,  intentionally left wondering if she measured up to his (supposedly) former girlfriends.

How dare he!

How dare this boy play his devious mind games with a young girl who has already been wounded by life?

How dare he not build her up by  focusing  on her many wonderful qualities?

How dare he not let  her know how grateful he is that she has agreed to be a part of his life?

But no.

Unable to break free of his own massive  insecurities,  he has to tear her down in order to feel big…powerful…manly.

It’s pathetic.

However, what is most egregious is that this boy claims to be a Christian. He says that Jesus is the Person who most inspires him.

Really?

Let’s take a look at how Jesus treats women, shall we?

*In a culture that disdained women, considered them easily disposable (a man could divorce a woman for something as trivial as burning dinner), did not allow them to testify in court or learn from a rabbi, Jesus treated women with a dignity, respect, and loving-kindness that was  simply astonishing.

*He welcomed women to learn from Him.

*He celebrated them.

*He appreciated them.

*He was gentle with women, particularly with those who were fragile emotionally or physically.

*He did not shy away from women who were prostitutes, outcasts, caught in the act of adultery, or those who lived with a string of  men without being married. Rather, He offered them a new way of life…one that was based on how HE, their Creator, defined them, rather than allowing  the ignorance, prejudice, and intolerance of others to do so.

*Rather than call them derogatory names, he calls women:

Beautiful
Cherished
Chosen
Captivating
Worth Dying For

And most delighfully , He calls them  His masterpiece, His poem, His work of art. (Ephesians 2:10).

So, no, dear Christian teenage girl…you do not have to put up with any boy who treats you as less than who you are. You have caught the eye of the very One who loves you with an everlasting love, who will always prove faithful to you, who died in your place so that you could have life everlasting.

Let no one disrespect you.

Do not let anyone define you.

If you get the first whiff of game-playing, it’s  really very simple: cut him loose.

Pray for him? Yes. Allow him access to your heart? No.

Actions speak louder than words. No matter what he says, see if his actions line up.

If not, make a deal with yourself: no rationalizations.

No excuses.

No denial.

Face the truth unflinchingly and with courage. Do what you need to do to be healthy and live in the glorious freedom that Jesus gives you.

If something does not feel right to you, if you have a check in your spirit, that is your Savior talking to you, warning you of danger ahead: pay attention.

Claim your God-given dignity.

Know that you are beautiful in His eyes

He has crowned you with glory, honor, and dignity. (Psalm 8:5).

Live like it.

(To read some of Jesus’ interactions with women, please see: John 7:53-8:1-11; John 4:1-42; Luke 7:36-50; Mark 5: 25-34)

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Sowing Light and Joy


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Yesterday morning, I read Psalm 97 and was intrigued by this verse: “Light is sown for the (uncompromisingly) righteous and strewn along their pathway, and joy for the upright in heart (the irrepressible joy which comes from consciousness of  His favor and protection).–Ps. 97:11 (Amplified)

I love this!

This is a conditional statement, promised not to those who are perfect (which is impossible this side of eternity) but to those whose hearts are wholly devoted to Jesus.

It makes sense that Jesus would sow light and joy into our lives because He IS Light and Joy!

I am the Light of the world.—John 8:12

…God has set You above your companions by anointing you with the oil of joy. —Hebrews  1:9

It made me picture Jesus smiling in delight at me when I wake up in the morning, anticipating my discovery of all the light and joy He has sown along my path for me to discover that day.

Living like that truly would make everyday a treasure hunt of His grace and love.

This is what that looked like for me on a recent day:

He treated me to a sight of the winter sun setting over the mountains

I was filled with sweet memories of Christmases past while bringing out the decorations for another season…

There was dinner with my family at one of our very favorite restaurants…

Afterward we spent the evening enjoying the state’s Philharmonic Holiday Pops show…

As I listened to the lovely music, I found myself wondering what music is going to sound like in Heaven. If it is so glorious here, imagine what it will be like there! Music is such a gift.

On the drive home, we talked and laughed while the Charlie Brown Christmas soundtrack played in the background.

Nothing earth-shattering happened that day. Nothing out-of-the-ordinary…yet it was beautiful.

Jesus had opened my eyes to see how much light and joy He had sown into that day.

He is willing to that every day. Psalm 97 says so.

Will I have eyes to see?

Will you?

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Holiday Survival


The holiday season can be tricky.

It is supposed to be a time of great fun and frivolity…a season of parties, carols, feasting, presents, bright lights, excitement, and anticipation…the most wonderful time of the year! And sometimes it is.

Yet, it is also a time of tremendous pain, especially for those who are mourning the loss of a loved one or are dealing with heartbreak. For them, the brightness of the season blazing into their sadness is like rubbing salt into an open wound. It hurts. I know. I have been there.

So how to cope? Here are some of the things that helped me when I walked through the holiday season after losing my dad:

1) Accept that the holidays will never be the same if you have lost a loved one. 

They can’t be. That person will always be missed. You can’t recreate what it was like when they were there, so do not try.

2) Let it be what it is.

Don’t try to work up feelings that aren’t there and acknowledge whatever you do feel. Don’t allow the culture or family and friends  to dictate what your Christmas should look like. Life is not a Norman Rockwell painting. Life can hurt and it’s okay if you are not in the celebratory mood that the season seems to demand.

If you need to cry…cry.

If you need to be alone…it’s okay to not accept every invitation.

If the very thought of decorating is exhausting to you, don’t.

Keep a running dialogue going with Jesus. He hears. He understands. He can carry the burden of your grief.

3) Avoid unrealistic expectations. 

This one is huge. It’s easy to buy into the hype and feel pressured to have the”perfect” Christmas. The truth is that there is no such thing. Take each day as it as it comes and release yourself from impossible, impractical or unworkable burdens.

4) Make an effort to focus on the blessings you do have.

You may not feel like your life contains any blessings but that is not true. Ask God to open your eyes to the gifts He has placed all around you, no matter how small. He will show you.

5) Know that you will laugh again. 

The joy of the holidays will return with the passage of time. I don’t believe in the saying that ‘time heals all wounds.’ Time can ease the pain, yes. However, Jesus heals all wounds…if we will allow Him to. Give Him unreserved access to your wounded heart.

6) Resist self-absorption: be a blessing to someone else. 

You are not the only one who is hurting. Continuing to look inward is a recipe for despair and bitterness. You have gifts to offer the world around you and there is a vast sea of need. No act of kindness is too small. Reach out and make a difference in the life of someone else. You will be blessed, I promise.

7) Remember the reason for the season.

…”the time came for the baby to be born and she gave birth to her firstborn, a son. She wrapped Him in cloths and placed Him in a manger, because there was no guest room available for them. 

And there were shepherds living out in the fields nearby keeping watch  over their flocks at night. An angel of the Lord appeared to them, and the glory of the Lord shone around them, and they were terrified. But the angel said them, ” Don’t be afraid. I bring you good news that will cause great joy for all people. Today, in the town of David a Savior has been born to you; He is Messiah, the Lord.” —Luke 2:6-11

On that first Christmas, the Lord God gave us the greatest, most staggering gift that ever was…a gift we will continue to unwrap for all eternity.

Because of Jesus’ arrival on our planet over 2000 years ago, believers are:

*Free

*Forgiven

*Loved unconditionally

* Safe

*Beloved

*Offered the priceless gifts of hope, grace, light, purpose, renewal, restoration, redemption, new life and joy, regardless of circumstances.

Even if you feel alone while the world celebrates around you, you are not alone.

He is with you and He will pour His strength into your heart to enable you to live through this season. He will bring you out to the other side.

He makes all things beautiful in His time. (Ecclesiastes 3:11).

For unto us a child is born, to us, a son is given, and the government will be on His shoulders. And He will be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace. —Is. 9:6 

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